Last Friday, I had finally completed Q2. I had turned in all of my final projects/papers/exams (just-in-time is more than an inventory strategy). I was officially ¾ done with my MBA.
I had a lot about which I could write.
Last Saturday, I watched Darden’s amazing faculty band perform at a local venue; they were accompanied by a second year—my fabulous girlfriend who has an amazing voice. It was a fun night and the performance was terrific.
I had a lot about which I could write.
Last Sunday, the first “quiet” day after the end of the quarter, I had brunch AND dinner with one of my closest girlfriends and her fiancé. They invited me over, fed me, and adopted me for the day. I felt like I spent Sunday with my family.
I had a lot about which I could write.
And that was my plan. My next blog post was going to be about some combination of the above.
Then, on Monday, I received the email. From the dean of Darden. At 6:49 pm. Announcing that a first year student had suddenly died.
And I was speechless. And have been for a few days. Until now.
I knew Justin through weekly DCF (Darden Christian Fellowship) meetings. He was knowledgeable, insightful, and always contributed to the conversation in a thought-provoking way. Justin was smart, fun, energetic, and infectious. Most importantly, Justin was a man of faith committed to continuous development—both intellectually and spiritually. Since his passing, a Facebook page has been created for friends and family to gather, share thoughts and pictures, and celebrate Justin’s life. What’s strikingly noticeable is the consistent theme in all of the memories shared: Justin was authentic, touched many people, and lived a life of faith and integrity.
The passing of someone is always startling. The passing of someone so young and so suddenly—even more so. The passing of someone who has impacted so many lives—evident in the Facebook dialogue—even more so. Amongst other things, this tragic circumstance has forced me to ask myself three things:
- Whose life am I impacting in a real, meaningful way?
- Am I making the most of my time and the opportunities with which I’ve been blessed?
- Am I actively working towards my life’s purpose, on a daily basis (particularly since I’m fortunate to have discovered it)?
Justin’s passing has sincerely rocked me—to my core. It has challenged me to, once again, be intentional and purposeful in all that I do—my thoughts, words, and deeds. It’s a reminder that I’ve been gifted with talents and opportunities that were meant to benefit others. It’s a reminder that I’m a part of something much greater than myself. Most importantly, it has reminded me that this is not about me.
That was beautiful, Jackie. Thanks.